Lovehoney Deluxe USB Mini Wand Massager for Women - Rechargeable

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But are they really worth all the hype? I think so—and I would know. I’ve been reviewing sex toys for more than a decade, and some of my most-used toys are wands, whether I’m reaching for them to crank out an orgasm or to work out some muscle tension (or both at once!). I love wand vibes so much that I actually got one tattooed on my body.

There are so many sex toys to choose from, whatever your pleasure may be. If you’re looking for something with a lot of power, the best wand vibrators will offer you the intensity you’re looking for and then some. SELF spoke with a variety of sex educators and therapists to learn more about what makes these particular vibes so great, and which ones you should consider. What are wand vibrators? Wand vibrators look pretty big and, admittedly, they are powerful. But don't be too intimidated - they're only used externally. As with all other vibrators, you can use it in whichever way feels good for you, it's all about feeling that out and having fun in the process. Firstly, there’s no right or wrong way to introduce vibrators into your sex life. Building your collection is loads of fun with options that range from budget-friendly to luxurious sex toys, and buzzy to whisper-quiet— yup, vibrators are one of the most versatile sex toys around. Buying a vibrator for the first time can be a little intimidating, so before diving in, it can be a good idea to familarise yourself with the different types of sex toys on offer.Sexologist Megan Stubbs, EdD, says they're also amazingly multi-functional. You can put the wand on a pillow and ride it for a DIY version of a hands-free toy. Or, if you have a dildo that doesn't vibrate and you want it to, you can insert the dildo inside yourself and place the wand vibe against the base of the toy so the vibrations carry. And that's not even half of it! So what's all the hype about? The magic of wand vibes lies in their rumbly vibrations, says Carrie Smith, Vice President of New Product Development at Cake. The motor is at the head, so these toys deliver both internal and external vibrations, resulting in all-over clitoral stimulation and a "deeper vibration" with minimal maneuvering on your part, she explains. You’d be surprised just how much variation there is in the clitoris, don’t forget that it actually extends around the labia beneath the surface. As you become more experienced, you can achieve a fantastic level of precision with a good vibrator. Toys are more and more sophisticated and nowadays come with a whole range of different settings, perfect for both timid first timers who enjoy gentler vibrations to those who relish concrete-smashing power when it comes to getting off. When you get a new toy, try out each pattern and speed setting as you might discover you like a sensation you never thought you would.

If you're interested in investing in a vibrator, then you're certainly not alone, with Good Housekeeping research revealing that the sex toy is no longer considered taboo. In fact, nearly half of couples now choose to use vibrators to enhance their sex lives. Vibrators can be enjoyed for solo-use and pleasure or can be introduced in the bedroom for you and a partner to enjoy. If your partner has a vulva, there's a whole host of options available for you! Ask them how they like to use a vibrator and show them how you do; and feel free to start swapping around. You can also use vibrators instead of or alongside strap-ons for penetrative sex. There's no rule book; the fun is in exploring!Enjoying a fresh, vibrant sex life is a great way to discover greater personal happiness in both mind and body. It's more fun than going to the gym, less fattening than chocolate and more exciting than riding roller coasters. Sure enough, it was a big hit with our testers, with one enthusiastic panellist describing it as, “the best vibrator ever”. Everyone praised the soft, supple material and agreed it was extremely quiet, giving them the confidence to use it with others at home or when travelling. Some wands are smaller and more discreet, while others are large and in charge. Many come with a variety of different speeds and settings, and some even have remote and app connectivity. These days, a lot of options are wireless, but some wands have cords, meaning you never have to charge them (and won’t lose power in the middle of play). The head of the wand vibrator should be made out of a non-porous material, like silicone, that’s soft and easy to clean. If you want to take your wand into the tub or shower, make sure to buy one that’s waterproof. Lastly, be sure to pair any silicone vibe with water-based lube, which won’t break down the toy’s material, unlike silicone lubes, which may cause deterioration. The best wand vibrators to buy right now Some people with vaginas say a particular side of their clitoris is more sensitive, whereas others might prefer to stimulate somewhere just above or below. If you’re especially sensitive, you can try using it outside the labia. By covering the clit, the vibrations are slightly more subtle, which gives you a slower build up to orgasm. This good-looking vibrator stands out for its unique tear-shape design. According to Lelo, the fine, bendable tip means it’s extra precise and won’t numb the entire area around the clitoris, allowing for multiple orgasms. Moving in a constant figure-of-eight pattern around your erogenous zones – instead of circular motions like traditional sex toys – the brand promises a “sweeping release of sensations”.

Beginners might want to try out a bullet vibrator - these are small, powerful vibrators perfect for clitoral stimulation. Due to their discreet size and accessible shape, bullet vibes are a really solid option for your first-time vibrator. They also tend to be subtle, quiet and cheap. How to use a bullet vibrator Well don't worry, you won't be wondering for long! Lovehoney's sex expert Annabelle Knight is on hand to give us all the lowdown on how to use a vibrator really, really well. How to use a vibrator Our panel loved the wireless remote control, which added an element of fun and made it easy to switch between the settings during use. It took a little manoeuvring to get in the right position, but once the fit was right, it was smiles all round. The two most important factors to consider—aside from the size and weight of your new toy—are the max noise level and the vibration power. Unfortch, the most powerful wands are usually the noisiest, so if you have roommates, then you'll wanna keep this in mind. Noise level is measured in decibels (dBs) while vibration power is typically measured in revolutions per minute (RPMs). Not every vibrator will have this information readily accessible, but both stats are good to know, whether you prioritize intensity over discretion or vice versa. For the record, sex toys that operate below 50 dBs are considered quiet. To start with, put it on the lowest setting, and make sure to place lots of water-based lube on the end and/or on your vulva. Gently move the head of the wand around different areas of your vulva to see which placement feels good for you.Carrie Smith is the vice president of new product development at Cake, a modern wellness brand based in Calabasas, CA. Now that you're a pro at using a vibrator for solo play, here's a few extra tips on how they can take your sex life to the next level: Remember that you can use the bullet in whatever way feels good for you. Once you're accustomed to and enjoying the lowest setting, you can begin to experiment: slowly working your way up and finding a pattern or speed that you enjoy. The affordable bullet vibrator for beginners Priyankaa has an MA in Magazine Journalism from Cardiff University and over five years’ experience in health and fitness journalism. Priyankaa has written for Stylist’s Strong Women Training Club, where she regularly wrote about diversity in the fitness industry, nutrition tips, training advice and her experience completing various fitness challenges. She has also written for a variety of publications including Business Insider, Glamour, Bustle, Metro, HuffPost UK, gal-dem and more.